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First Look Photo: How to Get It Right!

The "first look" – that magical moment when you see each other for the first time on your wedding day – can be captured in two different ways: before the ceremony or during it. Both options have unique benefits, and lately, more couples are opting for a pre-ceremony first look for its intimacy and flexibility. Here’s a guide to help you choose the right approach for your wedding, plus top tips from experienced photographers I’ve had the pleasure of working with. While these insights will help, be sure to consult your photographer – their personal touch and expertise make all the difference!



Why Choose a First Look Before the Ceremony?


  1. A Private, Emotional Moment: The first look before the ceremony is an intimate moment that allows you both to see each other privately, away from the eyes of guests. It’s a beautifully personal way to share and capture emotions before the ceremony unfolds. This creates a more authentic emotional reaction, which can be beautifully captured. With the groom turned away he may be missing out on the magic of those first few moments of the wedding ceremony; seeing the bridesmaids, flower girl and page boy make their way down the aisle, as well as the faces of your family and friends. And even the moments that don't go to plan, like the flower girl tipping the basket of petals on her head...these imperfect moments are real and make a wedding ceremony special


  2. More Time for Photos: Doing a first look gives you the flexibility for a range of candid and posed shots. Without the usual time crunch, your photographer can capture a broader variety of moments and settings.


  3. Calms Pre-Ceremony Jitters: Getting a quiet moment together before the ceremony helps ease any nerves. Couples often feel more relaxed after sharing this connection, setting a happy tone for the rest of the day.


  4. Streamlines the Schedule: With photos done before the ceremony, you can spend more time with guests after the ceremony. It allows you to enjoy your reception without extended breaks for photos.


  5. Creative Photo Opportunities: A first look can be set up at a location with beautiful backdrops or lighting, giving you a more diverse and visually striking set of photos.


Why Save the First Look for the Ceremony?


  1. The Traditional Impact: For many couples, seeing each other at the altar has an emotional depth that’s unmatched. That look of love and joy in a ceremonial setting is truly timeless.


  2. Guest Reactions: Choosing the ceremony for your first look also captures the reactions of loved ones, adding to the emotional atmosphere of your day.


  3. A Symbolic Moment: Watching each other walk down the aisle has a timeless, symbolic significance. This moment can be a deeply cherished part of your wedding experience.


Insider Tips for a Memorable First Look

If a pre-ceremony first look is the choice for you, here’s how to make it unforgettable:


  1. Pick the Perfect Spot: Choose a private, scenic location with good lighting – natural light is ideal for capturing emotional expressions. Think beaches, gardens, or wooded areas for a lovely backdrop.


  2. Get the Timing Right: Schedule the first look about 30–60 minutes before the ceremony. This allows plenty of time for photos while keeping everything relaxed and unrushed.


  3. Communicate with Your Photographer: Discuss your vision and any specific shots you want in advance. Setting clear cues, like when the bride will approach, ensures everyone knows what to expect.


  4. Do a Quick Rehearsal: Consider a mini run-through to get comfortable with the setup. This helps the couple know exactly when and where to approach, so it feels smooth and natural.


  5. Capture Every Emotion: Encourage the couple to be themselves – these candid expressions often turn out to be the most heartfelt. Photographers should be ready to capture both the initial reaction and those follow-up moments of joy.


  6. Stay Open to the Moment: Be flexible with timing and expectations. Sometimes, the best shots are unplanned, so embrace the spontaneity.


  7. Consider Having Close Family Nearby: Including a close family member or friend can bring added meaning and support to this emotional moment.


  8. Add a Mini Photo Session: Use this time after the first look to take relaxed, candid shots as a couple. These photos tend to feel more natural and personal.


  9. Blend First Look and Ceremony Shots: If you want the best of both worlds, have your photographer capture the first look and the ceremony, giving you a complete album of the day’s emotions.


  10. Communicate with Your Celebrant: If you'd like your celebrant to help (e.g. giving the cue to turn during the ceremony), ensure that your photographer let's the celebrant know what is required before the day, to ensure it runs smoothly.


Whether you go with a first look before or during the ceremony, the goal is to create a genuine, memorable experience. By taking time to plan with your photographer and possibly your celebrant, you’ll set the stage for a meaningful moment that reflects your unique love story. Most of all be real and enjoy your wedding day!




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